Saturday, November 24, 2012

A Little Set Back

If you read my prior post, then you know that Dan's tumor was malignant.  Turns out he also has a spot (3 cm) on his lung.  At this point, the natural assumption is that he has lung cancer which has metastasized to his brain.  Our neurosurgeon feels that is what indeed has happened, but until we get the final pathology report sometime next week, we won't know for sure.  I know what you are thinking, and no-there is no good reason why Dan should have lung cancer. He never smoked one cigarette, his work  environment was not an issue, as far as we know he had no radon exposure.  For his risk factors and age, Dan fits into the 1% category of people who have lung cancer.  We may never know why.

The more pressing issue we have been facing the past couple of days is the fact that Dan developed what is called Wallenberg Syndrome.  Essentially that means he had a mini-stroke.  We don't know when this occurred, there are several possibilities.  What has happened is he has no sense of balance.  He has some strength in his arms/legs, numbness in his hands/feet, and no ability to sit up or stand.  When the physical therapist gets him sitting up on the bed, he feels like he is floating in water and has trouble determining where his mid-point is.  He is also having trouble with his hand/eye coordination.   The good news is that the doctor feels that most or all of his function can be restored through heavy physical therapy.  So, that means they will be moving Dan to Elks Rehab Hospital (across the street from where he currently is).  They are going to start him on a heavy 3-hour a day rehab program with the hopes that he can become independent in the next few weeks and we can get him home.  This will be very important as we also need to begin his radiation/chemo treatments once we have final pathology.

The current plan is to get him transferred to Elks as soon as possible (there is a shot it could happen today, Saturday, but may not be until early next week).  Dan's mom is coming next week, and once he is settled, there will be some opportunity for limited visitation.  With so much happening, Dan has not felt up to receiving visitors, and he tires easily.  We know everyone is concerned, and is thinking of him and I hope this blog will be a good source to try and keep everyone updated.  Please feel free to leave a message for Dan on here and I will read them all to him.  We really appreciate all your love and support!

13 comments:

  1. Jen,

    Thanks for sharing this blog. We have been waiting anxiously to hear how Dan's surgery went. It sounds like you and Dan have work ahead of you, but reason to be optimistic about Dan's recovery. I look forward to following his progress on this blog.

    Please pass on my best wishes to Dan for a speedy recovery. The thoughts of all of us here in Yakima are with you.

    Best regards,

    Tom Coleman

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  2. Jen,Our hearts are with you, Dan and Jack. We are praying for all of you. I want you to know that we are available to help in anyway that you might need or want. We can bring meals, Gigi would love to play with Jack, anything. Dan is such a blessing in Carl's life. Carl has so much admiration for him and really loves him as a person and friend. Please let us know where we can lend a hand or support you guys. We are thinking of you.
    Blessings,
    Hailey Hipwell

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  3. Jenn - Thanks for sharing this info. We are thinking of you guys every day and sending best wishes.

    What can we help with? You have a lot of friends out here, and we would love to help you guys with anything that is needed!

    Cathy Cooper

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  4. Dan, My prayers are with you through your rehab and battle that you have ahead of you. You haven't backed away from working out hard in the past so getting pushed in rehab should be second nature.
    Jen, thanks for the wonderfully written and heartfelt blog. My prayers for you are for support and strength.
    In Christ's Love,
    Greg Whiteman

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  5. Dan,
    Was so saddened to read this post today and hear all of what you and your family are going through right now. I can only imagine what life has been like with all of this. Glad to join in praying.
    Lisa Severson (Reiland)

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  6. Dear Dan, Jen and Jack,

    We are thinking of all three of you and sending you positive thoughts full of strength, encouragement and perseverance. If there's anything you guys need, let us know. We would be more than happy to do anything at all to help you guys get past this. And Dan, as you know, Maize is very fond of you and would be more than happy to make a house call when you're up for it. :)

    Jen, thanks for keeping this blog. As others have mentioned, it's great to read your updates and explanations, and to be able to follow Dan's progress.

    You guys are in our thoughts. Big hugs to all you.

    Love,
    Jason, Mariah and Sidonie

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  7. Hi Jen and Dan,
    Dan may not even remember me from his Cornerstone days...we have mutual friends, including the Seversons. I as very touched by this news though. Dan's heart for the Lord was always so evident even to acquaintances like me. My heart goes out to you, his family, in this challenging time. Please know that I'm praying for Dan's full recovery and grace and comfort for all of you.
    Blessings, Atsuko Sibuya

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  8. Dan and Jen and Jack...we are praying for you! The children want you to know they are praying too. May Gods grace and mercy be a cornerstone of hope and strength for you right now. Jeremiah 29:11. We are available for anything you need. Prayerful....BRI and Bon

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  9. Dan,
    I am so so sorry to hear this news. Cancer makes no sense to me and who it decides to attack. What I do know is that it can be beat. You are strong, and have an incredible support system with your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please rest as much as you can, sleep is very important to your healing process.
    Mary-Beth Maras

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  10. Dan,

    Although the years have ticked by since high school the connections when they count are still strong. Janice Backstrom sent a quick note to let me know the struggles you and your beautiful family are undergoing. Well that just sucks. I am sending healing light and love to speed you on your recovery. Jen thank you for starting this blog. Very helpful. Dan you have such great outlook in life! Cancer can be beat and a sense of humor helps. I am cheering for you thousands of miles away.

    Kelly Baltzell

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  11. Dear Jen, Dan and Jack
    Bonnie and I want to thank you for posting this blog. While we find it difficult to process the information you are sharing, please know we are in your corner at this tough time. Please know that our thoughts and best wishes are extended to you and your family. Knowing Dan’s quirky sense of humor, I hope you are able to find some moments of peace during this period. We are sending you our strongest hope for a speedy and full recovery. Love from Bonnie and Matt

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  12. Jen,
    Love you . Praying for you.
    Stephanie

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  13. Jen & Dan,

    I have been reading a few articles about how hemp oil helps with brain tumors. It is being studied in Spain I believe. Here is a link to two of the articles:

    http://beforeitsnews.com/alternative/2012/12/spain-study-confirms-hemp-oil-cures-cancer-without-side-effects-2-2507324.html

    http://thestir.cafemom.com/baby/147477/baby_recovered_from_brain_tumor

    Hope this helps! Kelly

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